Let's Socialise SELECT

The inner circle.
Quiet, considered, by invitation.

A small membership for guests we keep asking back. Closed quarterly dinners with founders, artists, and athletes — hosted across four cities — plus a private channel between chapters.

·64 members in 20264 cities4 seats opened this quarter
What’s included

A year of evenings that don’t need a calendar reminder.

Membership runs annually. You’ll know the people on the table by the second dinner — and the wine list by the third.

01

Four closed quarterly dinners

Six-to-eight guests, set menus, hosted in Mumbai, Delhi, Bengaluru, and Goa. The same room, three months apart — by design.

Quarterly · 4 cities
02

Two member-only Fests

Twice a year, the membership convenes off-site. One winter, one monsoon. Forty members, one venue we usually shouldn't have.

Biannual · Off-site
03

Founders, artists, athletes as hosts

An occasional rotating host who shares the table. Not a panel — a dinner, where you'll ask better questions than any moderator could.

Rotating
04

Priority across every public Chapter

Apply once and you're in any city's Chapter. Skip the waitlist, skip the curation — your seat is held until 24h before.

Year-round · Any city
05

A private channel between chapters

An invite-only thread with the people you actually liked. Quiet by design. Used mostly to share dinners we should've gone to and ones we should host next.

Always on
06

One guest pass, all yours

Bring someone we should meet. They show up as your guest — no application, no review. Most guests turn into members within a year.

Per member · Annual
07

Travel concierge

Flying through a city we host in? Tell us the dates — we'll pre-arrange a Chapter that lands on your evening, with people worth flying for.

On request
08

An annual journal of the year

A physical book — chapters, photographs, things people said worth printing. Posted to you the first week of January.

January · Hand-bound
Annual fee
₹48k/yr

All-in, no extras.

Covers food, venues, the journal, and the channel. Members get the year — never charged month-to-month.

Members in 2026
·64

Kept under 80, nationally.

Each city caps at 24 to keep dinners six-to-eight wide. We’d rather wait a quarter than crowd a table.

How to join
→ Chapter

You can’t apply directly.

Come to one or two Chapters. If it feels right on both sides, we’ll send a quiet note in the morning.

Past hosts

Who we’ve cooked dinner with.

A small selection. The rule of SELECT is the same as the rule of dinner: who’s at the table changes the night.

Q1 · Mumbai
"On building things people love when nobody's watching."
Tanmay G.Founder · fintech
Q2 · Delhi
"The case for slow art, in a fast country."
Niharika P.Painter · independent
Q3 · Bengaluru
"What sport teaches you about boredom."
Aryan T.Tennis pro · ATP tour
Q4 · Goa
"On writing a book you don't want to publish."
Reema K.Author · two novels in
From the chief host
“SELECT isn’t a tier — it’s a table. The same eight chairs, four times a year, in four cities, with people you’d cross a city for.”
Ravinder Singh · Founder & chief host
How to get in

It begins with a Chapter — not a form.

The shortest path is to be the kind of guest a host writes about in the post-dinner note. Most invites go out within ten weeks of a first Chapter.

  1. Apply to a Chapter

    Three-minute application. Any city, any week. The first Chapter is your audition — but it's also just a great dinner.

  2. Show up twice (usually)

    One Chapter is a sample size of one. Two gives the host enough signal — and gives you a feel for whether the format is for you.

  3. Get a quiet note

    If it's a yes, we send an invite — never publicly, never via a form. You'll have a week to decide and a year ahead.

  4. The first dinner

    Your first quarterly is the one that decides everything. Show up. The rest takes care of itself.

Begin · Apply to a Chapter

Worth a Friday. Worth a year.

SELECT begins with a Chapter. There’s no application form for membership — only for the dinner that decides it.